Türöffner

English translation: door opener

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German term or phrase:Türöffner
English translation:door opener
Entered by: Nicole Schnell

12:07 Dec 4, 2006
German to English translations [PRO]
Social Sciences - Psychology / Konfliktmanagement
German term or phrase: Türöffner
"Benutzen Sie Türöffner, um den Prozess der Konfliktlösung in Gang zu bringen". Es geht um eine bestimmte Technik der Gesprächsführung bzw. um bestimmte Phrasen, die verhärtete Fronten aufbrechen.
Eszter Bokor
Austria
Local time: 17:20
door opener
Explanation:
"Door Openers.

Per Bolton, a door opener is “a noncoercive invitation to talk.” Sometimes it’s as simple as “What’s on your mind?” or “You don’t seem yourself lately.” According to Bolton, door openers have four parts, though not each part is present in every door opener:

Description of the other person’s body language
An invitation to talk or to continue talking
Silence; that is, give the person a chance to respond.
Attending. (All the skills I talked about here.)
Keep these guidelines in mind when “opening the door on a conversation”:

Do not use roadblocks when you should be using a door opener. More on roadblocks later. For now, know that roadblocks are comments that actually dissuade a person from talking instead of encouraging them to talk.
If the person doesn’t want to talk, don’t force the issue.
Only use door openers when you have time to commit to the conversation. Giving the person an opportunity to talk and then cutting them short will make it that much difficult for them to open up later."
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Nicole Schnell
United States
Local time: 08:20
Grading comment
vielen dank!
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3 +6door opener
Nicole Schnell
4 +2icebreaker
Christina Keating (X)


  

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door opener


Explanation:
"Door Openers.

Per Bolton, a door opener is “a noncoercive invitation to talk.” Sometimes it’s as simple as “What’s on your mind?” or “You don’t seem yourself lately.” According to Bolton, door openers have four parts, though not each part is present in every door opener:

Description of the other person’s body language
An invitation to talk or to continue talking
Silence; that is, give the person a chance to respond.
Attending. (All the skills I talked about here.)
Keep these guidelines in mind when “opening the door on a conversation”:

Do not use roadblocks when you should be using a door opener. More on roadblocks later. For now, know that roadblocks are comments that actually dissuade a person from talking instead of encouraging them to talk.
If the person doesn’t want to talk, don’t force the issue.
Only use door openers when you have time to commit to the conversation. Giving the person an opportunity to talk and then cutting them short will make it that much difficult for them to open up later."


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Nicole Schnell
United States
Local time: 08:20
Native speaker of: Native in GermanGerman
PRO pts in category: 12
Grading comment
vielen dank!

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agree  William [Bill] Gray
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icebreaker


Explanation:
I hear this word used more often than door opener. It definitely sounds more English than "door opener."

an opening remark, action, etc., designed to ease tension or relieve formality: A mild joke can be a good icebreaker.
http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/icebreaker

Christina Keating (X)
United States
Local time: 10:20
Native speaker of: English

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agree  Gert Hirschfeld: Yeah that's it! I knew something wasn't quite right.
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agree  Marcelo Silveyra
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